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If You Love Dogs, Buy a Goldfish !

If You Love Dogs, Buy a Goldfish !

If you love dogs, buy a goldfish. It sounds counterintuitive, I know, but hear me out. Dogs are incredible creatures, full of personality, intelligence, and charm—but they’re not accessories, nor are they little humans in fur suits. Too often, we bring a dog home and expect it to fit into our lives as easily as a new couch or houseplant. We assume they’ll adapt to our schedules, tolerate every guest, and generally go with the flow, all while remaining endlessly loyal and affectionate. But dogs aren’t wired to live passively in our world. They need more than food, water, and a soft place to sleep. They need structure, guidance, and a bit of respect for who they truly are—animals with instincts and needs that don’t always align with our expectations.

In this article, I explore what it means to be a steward rather than a mere owner when it comes to dogs. Becoming a steward means understanding and meeting our dogs’ needs, recognizing that they are sentient beings with unique personalities and preferences. True stewardship goes beyond basic care and training; it’s about creating an environment where a dog feels secure, valued, and fulfilled. Dogs need routines that make sense to them, guidance that respects their instincts, and a life that offers more than just a passive existence in a human household. And if that sounds like too much responsibility, there’s no shame in choosing a pet that doesn’t require quite so much—like a goldfish, perhaps.

By the end, I hope to leave you with a deeper understanding of what dogs truly need to thrive and maybe a smile at the thought of swapping your dog for a simpler, less demanding companion. Because while a goldfish might offer peace and simplicity, it will never give you the kind of partnership, loyalty, and joy that a dog brings. So, are you a dog steward or more a goldfish-fishtank kind of person?

The Blue-Eyed Puzzle: Unraveling the Genetic and Behavioral Challenges of Tater Tot and Finnley

The Blue-Eyed Puzzle: Unraveling the Genetic and Behavioral Challenges of Tater Tot and Finnley

The icy-blue or sky-colored eyes that captivate so many dog lovers are often accompanied by a higher incidence of anxiety, reactivity, and behavioral concerns compared to their brown-eyed counterparts. This observation isn't just anecdotal; it's supported by a growing body of scientific research and my own hands-on work with these breeds.

Currently, I'm working with two dogs in my board and train program that exemplify these challenges: Tater Tot, a mini Australian Shepherd, and Finnley, a Catahoula Leopard Dog. Both of these blue-eyed beauties are here to address severe anxiety, reactivity, and aggression issues. The striking similarity of their problems, despite their different breeds, has led me to delve deeper into the genetic underpinnings of these behavioral issues.

In this article, I aim to shed light on the genetic basis of blue eye color in these breeds, explore the link between sensory perception and behavior, and examine how these factors may contribute to heightened anxiety, reactivity to novel stimuli, and aggression towards people. It's crucial to understand that these dogs are not at fault for their challenging behaviors. Instead, their struggles often stem from genetic factors related to their distinctive eye color.

Choose Your Difficult Part 4: The Socialization Dilemma – Calm vs. Chaos in a World of Distractions

Choose Your Difficult Part 4: The Socialization Dilemma – Calm vs. Chaos in a World of Distractions

Many dog owners believe socialization is about exposing their dog to as many people, dogs, and environments as possible to create a friendly, outgoing pet. However, in **Part 4 of the "Choose Your Difficult"** series, I challenge this notion. While exposure is important, too much engagement often leads to overstimulation, reactivity, and anxiety. My philosophy focuses on raising a **neutral dog**—one that can observe the world around them without feeling compelled to react. A dog that remains calm, balanced, and focused on their handler is not only easier to manage but more emotionally secure.

In this article, I dive into the challenges and science behind socializing for neutrality rather than excitement. Overstimulation triggers stress, and many behavioral issues stem from a lack of emotional control. The difficult path is teaching your dog to be calm and neutral in the face of distractions, rather than chasing engagement or excitement. Though it takes effort, patience, and consistency, raising a neutral dog leads to a well-balanced companion who thrives in any situation, strengthening your bond in the process.

Choose Your Difficult: Navigating the Complex Choices of Dog Ownership - Part 3 Consistency

Choose Your Difficult: Navigating the Complex Choices of Dog Ownership - Part 3 Consistency

In my ongoing series, "Choose Your Difficult: Navigating the Complex Choices of Dog Ownership," we’ve been exploring the pivotal decisions that shape our relationships with our dogs. The essence of "Choose Your Difficult" is the understanding that every path in dog ownership comes with its own set of challenges. There is no easy way out, but we can make informed choices about which difficulties we are willing to face to create the best possible outcomes for both our dogs and ourselves. In the first article, we discussed the balance between affection and boundaries; in the second, we emphasized the importance of early training. In this third article, we will look into the critical importance of consistency—a cornerstone of effective dog ownership that is essential for fostering a well-behaved, secure, and content dog.

Consistency in dog ownership is about creating a structured environment where your dog knows what to expect and what is expected of them. While this might seem straightforward, maintaining consistency in our often chaotic and busy lives is anything but simple. It requires discipline, commitment, and a deep understanding of how our behavior and decisions impact our dog’s behavior and emotional well-being. The choice you face here is between the short-term convenience of being flexible or inconsistent and the long-term benefits of maintaining a structured, predictable environment for your dog.

The Pressure Behind the Passion: Emotional Challenges in Dog Training

The Pressure Behind the Passion: Emotional Challenges in Dog Training

In light of yet another suicide attempt by a fellow trainer and behaviorist, it's imperative that we address the profound emotional and mental challenges faced by those in our profession. This tragic event is a stark reminder of the pressures we endure, pressures that led to the loss of my late friend, Dr. Sophia Yin, who hung herself ten years ago. Dr. Yin was an incredible trainer whose life was cut short by the very stress and exhaustion described in this article. Beneath the surface of what many perceive as an idyllic job lies a profession fraught with emotional and mental challenges that are often overlooked.

Dog trainers face immense pressure from unrealistic expectations, with many dog owners believing that a few weeks of training can undo years of ingrained behaviors. This misconception places a heavy burden on trainers, who invest not just their time but also their emotions into helping these dogs. The emotional toll of seeing progress unravel due to owner negligence, coupled with the constant demand for immediate results and availability, leads to severe burnout. This article delves into these unseen struggles, shedding light on the emotional and mental exhaustion that comes with the territory of being a dog trainer.

Why Do Good Dog Trainers Get Bad Reviews? 10 Eye-Opening Reasons

Why Do Good Dog Trainers Get Bad Reviews? 10 Eye-Opening Reasons

Many highly skilled dog trainers are receiving poor reviews and negative feedback from clients after their dogs return home from intensive board and train programs or service dog training. At first glance, it may seem like the issue lies with the trainers themselves or the quality of their training methods. However, after careful analysis and observation, I've come to the conclusion that in most cases, the problem actually stems from the owners and handlers themselves.

In this article, I will explore ten key reasons why even the best trained dogs often quickly revert back to undesirable behaviors once they are back in their home environment, leading to frustration for both the owners and the trainers who worked so hard to help them. By understanding these common pitfalls, my hope is that dog owners can be better prepared to maintain their dog's training and create a harmonious household for all.

The Eternal Novice: Lessons from a Life Spent Learning at the Feet of Canines

The Eternal Novice: Lessons from a Life Spent Learning at the Feet of Canines

All of life is a learning expedition, a pilgrimage with no final destination. In this article, I reflect on the profound lessons gleaned from a lifetime of diverse pursuits - from the ocean depths as a pioneering technical diver, to the complex world of professional dog training, to the thrills and spills of adventure motorcycle riding. Through it all, three core principles emerge as universal guides: Embrace discomfort as a catalyst for growth. Cultivate a beginner's mind, staying perpetually open to new insights. And recognize that the richest rewards lie not in any fleeting achievement, but in the person we become through the process of passionate engagement.

These philosophies have been powerfully reinforced through the influence of extraordinary mentors. In my journey as an adventure motorcyclist, for instance, the masterful coaching of Bret Tkacs has been instrumental in helping me confront deep-seated fears and stretch my skills far beyond self-imposed limits. His guidance epitomizes the transformative power of apprenticeship - of being seen, challenged, and uplifted by someone further down the path. But equally profound are the insights sparked in collaboration with kindred spirits - fellow adventurers whose camaraderie and hard-won wisdom have salved and stretched me in equal measure. It's in the electric fusion of minds working as one to puzzle out a complex dog training conundrum, or in the soul-baring conversations shared around a campfire after an epic day of riding. These moments of connection stand as both cherished memories and powerful motivators, illuminating the fundamental truth that a life well-lived is one of perpetual discovery - of the world, of others, and of oneself.

Winged Rats and Loyal Companions: Insights for Dog Owners from the Pigeon Story

Winged Rats and Loyal Companions: Insights for Dog Owners from the Pigeon Story

As I delve deeper into the world of falconry, I've encountered a common perception among my peers who often refer to pigeons as "rats with wings." This derogatory term prompted me to reflect on the true story of pigeons, a story that is far richer and more complex than many realize. Pigeons, often dismissed as mere urban pests, have a profound history intertwined with human civilization. Domesticated over thousands of years, they have served us in remarkable ways—from sacred symbols and messengers in ancient civilizations to life-saving couriers during world wars. Their resilience and adaptability, despite being abandoned and vilified in modern cities, highlight the deep and often overlooked connections between humans and animals.

The story of pigeons underscores the importance of empathy and ethical treatment in all human-animal relationships. The lessons learned from their history remind us of our responsibility to care for the animals we domesticate and the far-reaching consequences of our actions. For dog owners and animal enthusiasts alike, this tale offers valuable insights into fostering compassionate and informed approaches to training and cohabitation with our animal companions. Understanding the pigeons' plight can help us approach our relationships with our pets, especially dogs, with greater empathy and responsibility, ensuring a harmonious coexistence.

The Engagement Illusion: How True Connection Differs from Superficial Responsiveness in Dog Training

The Engagement Illusion: How True Connection Differs from Superficial Responsiveness in Dog Training

As a cynologist I have dedicated my life to understanding and improving the relationship between humans and their canine companions. I have worked with countless dogs and their owners, and I have seen firsthand the incredible power of true engagement in transforming the way we train and interact with our dogs.

But what exactly is true engagement, and how does it differ from the kind of engagement that most people are familiar with? This is a question that I have grappled with throughout my career, and it is one that I believe is crucial for anyone who wants to build a deep, meaningful bond with their dog. In this article, we will explore the scientific principles that underlie true engagement in dog training. We will delve into the realms of psychology, neuroscience, and ethology to understand the mechanisms at play in fostering this deep connection. By understanding these principles, dog owners and trainers can move beyond simplistic notions of training and instead focus on building a relationship that unlocks the full potential of the human-canine bond.

The Angry Brain: A Neuroscientific Expedition Into the Depths of Canine Aggression

The Angry Brain: A Neuroscientific Expedition Into the Depths of Canine Aggression

In this article, I embark on a deep dive into the complex world of canine aggression, exploring the intricate tapestry of neurological, genetic, environmental, and experiential factors that shape a dog's propensity for aggressive behavior. By synthesizing cutting-edge research from the fields of behavioral neuroscience, ethology, and veterinary medicine, I aim to reframe aggression not as a simple matter of "good" or "bad" dogs, but as a multifaceted phenomenon with deep biological roots. This nuanced perspective, grounded in empathy and scientific understanding, offers a roadmap for moving beyond the simplistic and often counterproductive approaches that have long dominated the conversation around aggressive dogs.

Central to this exploration is a detailed look at the three primary neural pathways that mediate aggressive behavior in dogs: the defensive fear-based pathway, the proactive seeking pathway, and the predatory pathway. Each of these circuits engages distinct brain regions optimized for different aggressive functions and contexts, from the amygdala's rapid threat detection to the hypothalamus's coordination of the chase and kill. By carefully teasing apart these neurological mechanisms and their behavioral manifestations, we can develop a more granular understanding of the diverse motivations and triggers that underlie aggressive acts in dogs.

However, the neurobiology of aggression is only one piece of the puzzle. Equally important are the complex ways in which an individual dog's genes, early life experiences, and moment-to-moment interactions with the environment shape its aggressive responses. From the heritable differences in temperament between dog breeds to the lasting impact of puppyhood trauma or neglect, a wide range of nature-nurture factors can dial a dog's aggression risk up or down. Of particular interest is the powerful role of sex hormones, especially estrogen, in modulating aggressive behavior in both male and female dogs - a critical insight that is often overlooked in spay/neuter decisions. By weaving together these multiple levels of analysis, from the molecular to the societal, I hope to paint a more complete and compassionate picture of the aggressive dog as the product of a perfect storm of interacting variables

Bravo Maestro: How Mozart's Music Transforms the Human-Canine Bond

Bravo Maestro: How Mozart's Music Transforms the Human-Canine Bond

In this article, I delve into the profound connection between my professional life as a cynologist, deeply engaged in the rehabilitation of dogs, and my lifelong passion for classical music, spotlighted by last night’s  experience at the Oregon Symphony’s stirring rendition of Mozart’s Requiem. Conducted with zeal by David Danzmayr, this performance prompted me to contemplate the symbiotic relationship between the emotive power of Mozart’s unfinished masterpiece and the essence of my work with dogs. My adventure in classical music began at the young age of seven, when I would eagerly spend my after-school hours at a music academy in Aalst, immersing myself in the history of classical music and dedicating countless hours to learning the trumpet, piano, and organ.

Throughout my career as a cynologist, I’ve been privileged to witness the remarkable transformation in dogs, who, much like the emotive force of the Requiem, move from conditions of severe anxiety, fear, and reactivity to states of happiness and vitality. This process of transformation, driven by consistent patience and a firm belief in their potential for goodness, echoes the emotional depth and ambition of Mozart’s final work. This duality of purpose is personified in my relationship with Falca, my cherished K9 companion. Through shared experiences of adversity and success, Falca and I have cultivated a partnership defined by mutual trust, respect, and a concerted vision, showcasing the powerful and transformative bond that can be forged between humans and animals.

In Dreams They Run: Unveiling the Mysteries of Canine Sleep

In Dreams They Run: Unveiling the Mysteries of Canine Sleep

Have you ever wondered what your furry friend might be dreaming about as they twitch and whimper in their sleep? As a cynologist, I've long been fascinated by the mysteries of canine dreamscapes. In my latest article, "In Dreams They Run: Unveiling the Mysteries of Canine Sleep," I delve into the science behind dog dreams and explore what our beloved companions might be experiencing in their slumber.

Through the lens of my own 15-year-old German Shepherd, Falca, I examine the stages of canine sleep, the physical signs of dreaming, and the potential content of their dreams. By understanding the complexities of canine cognition and emotion, we can deepen our bond with our furry friends and provide them with the love, security, and comfort they need to thrive, both in their waking lives and in their dreams. Join me on this fascinating journey into the realm of canine dreams, and discover the rich emotional world of our loyal companions.

A Journey of Loyalty and Love: Caring for an Aging Warrior, K9 Falca

A Journey of Loyalty and Love: Caring for an Aging Warrior, K9 Falca

In this article and personal reflection, I delve into the enriching journey I have shared with K9 Falca, a narrative that not only highlights her exceptional service as a working dog but also underscores the essence of resilience, love, and dignity in her golden years. Falca's story is a poignant celebration of a life filled with purpose, passion, and an indomitable spirit. By attentively addressing her evolving needs and savoring each moment together, we not only pay tribute to her remarkable legacy but also ensure her senior years are as vibrant and fulfilling as the countless seasons we've navigated side by side. This commitment to her well-being involves implementing specific care tips tailored for aging canines, such as regular veterinary check-ups, a nutritious diet suited to her changing health requirements, gentle exercise to maintain her physical health without straining her aging body, and comfortable living arrangements that accommodate her comfort and mobility needs.

The deep connection I share with Falca has profoundly influenced my approach to canine training and care, illuminating the transformative power of love and mutual respect. This relationship, built on an intense foundation of trust and understanding, has taught me invaluable lessons about the importance of empathy, patience, and innovation in meeting the unique challenges presented by an aging K9 companion. These lessons extend beyond the realm of canine training, reminding us of the critical importance of nurturing deep, empathetic, and trusting relationships in all areas of life. Through honoring Falca's enduring spirit and her legacy of love, we are encouraged to incorporate these values into our own lives, ensuring that the care we provide for our aging companions reflects the depth of our bond and the profound impact they have had on our lives. By sharing these care tips and reflecting on the lessons learned from Falca's journey, we hope to inspire others to provide the best possible care for their aging K9 heroes, ensuring their later years are filled with the love, dignity, and respect they so richly deserve.

From the ocean’s depths to the Leash: An odyssey Trough Deep Sea Mysteries and Canine Minds

From the ocean’s depths to the Leash: An odyssey Trough Deep Sea Mysteries and Canine Minds

In this personal reflection, my journey from the shadowy depths of the ocean to the expressive gaze of our canine companions has been a profound exploration of both the unknown and the deeply familiar. Starting as an extreme exploration and experimental diver, I was drawn into the silent, mysterious world beneath the sea's surface, where each dive represented a venture into the unknown, challenging human endurance and technological limits against nature's raw, unforgiving forces. However, this path of exploration took an unexpected turn as I shifted from marine to canine realms. Yet, the essence of my quest remained unchanged—a relentless pursuit of connection, understanding, and the expansion of knowledge. The "Into the Twilight Zone" expedition in Manado Tua, Indonesia, stands as a pinnacle in my journey, where as the chairman of a joint National Geographic mission, I led the exploration to uncover secrets of the Coelacanth, a creature thought extinct, revealing the power of human curiosity and our relentless pursuit of uncovering the mysteries that lie in uncharted territories.

This expedition was a precursor to my dive into Cynology, the scientific study of dogs, where I applied the same principles of exploration and innovation to understand the complex world of canine behavior and psychology. The transition from exploring the depths of the ocean to delving into the intricacies of dog behavior was not merely a change in focus but a continuation of my exploration into the unknown. In both realms, I learned the importance of patience, non-verbal communication, trust, and teamwork—lessons that became the foundation of my work in Cynology. This journey has not only expanded our understanding of the world beneath the waves and the canine companions by our sides but has also highlighted the interconnectedness of all life, underscoring the importance of empathy, compassion, and a profound respect for nature's mysteries. My exploration has been a testament to the idea that seeking understanding and building connections across the natural world can reveal the extraordinary in the everyday, reminding us of our shared desire for connection and our capacity to live in harmony with the natural world.

Embracing the Bark of Ignorance: A Humbling Tale of Knowing Nothing About Dogs

Embracing the Bark of Ignorance: A Humbling Tale of Knowing Nothing About Dogs

The ten thousand hour rule, widely propagated as the key to achieving mastery in any field, has captivated the imaginations of countless individuals seeking to excel in their chosen pursuits. This principle has been presented as a straightforward path to expertise, whether one aspires to be a virtuoso violinist, a master chef, or a renowned painter. However, with over three decades dedicated to studying and engaging with Canis lupus familiaris (our domesticated dogs), Canis lupus (the enigmatic wolf), and the broader Canidae family, I've come to a stark realization. This journey through the intricate world of animal behavior has illuminated just how little I've managed to uncover; it's as if I've only just begun to explore an ever-deepening abyss.

Who's Training Whom? “The Canine Comedy of Accidental Education”

Who's Training Whom? “The Canine Comedy of Accidental Education”

Every dog owner unwittingly doubles as a professor in the school of Pavlovian Pooches, often granting diplomas in subjects like Advanced Doorbell Barking and Intro to Leash Tug-of-War. This tongue-in-cheek exploration delves into the comedic mishaps of classical conditioning in daily dog ownership and suggests a shift towards the more deliberate approach of operant conditioning. It's time to stop scratching our heads when Fido freaks out at the sight of our sneakers and start scratching behind his ears for the right reasons. In this humor filled article I explain why we need to “De-Pavlov” ourselves and increase our “Skinnarian” powers.

Doggy Doors Debunked: A Closer Look at Training Complications and Home Risks

Doggy Doors Debunked: A Closer Look at Training Complications and Home Risks

Doggy doors, though convenient for pet owners, can inadvertently lead to a host of behavioral and security issues in dogs. In this article I explain the negative effects associated with the use of both traditional and electronic doggy doors, including challenges in house-training, increased territorial behavior, and potential security risks for the household.

More Than Words: How Everyday Moments Shape Dog Training and Attachment

More Than Words: How Everyday Moments Shape Dog Training and Attachment

The partnership between humans and dogs is one of the oldest and most complex interspecies relationships. While formal training sessions are important for teaching specific behaviors, especially in contexts like sport dogs, obedience competitions, or performance arts like the circus, they represent just a fraction of the daily interactions that influence a dog's behavior. In this article I present a comprehensive examination of how everyday experiences and the overall upbringing of a dog shape their perception of their human counterparts and the effectiveness of training. I also draw parallels with the dynamics of human relationships to illustrate the importance of consistent and positive daily interactions for a successful and deep-rooted human-canine bond.

Training Steadiness in Hunting Dogs

Training Steadiness in Hunting Dogs

Steadiness is an essential attribute for any hunting dog, providing the foundation for disciplined behavior in the midst of hunting excursions. It ensures that the dog remains composed, attentive, and obedient, regardless of the distractions or temptations that arise in the natural environment. A dog that embodies steadiness is one that will not impulsively pursue game or disrupt the hunt, thereby maintaining the integrity of the hunting experience and safeguarding all involved from potential hazards. In this article, I will teach you the process of instilling steadiness in your hunting dog, offering strategies that are effective across various breeds and types of hunting.

Training the Hunting Dog

Training the Hunting Dog

The journey of training a hunting dog is as rewarding as it is challenging. It involves a commitment to ongoing education for the handler and a dedication to the well-being and development of the dog. Handlers must be attuned to their dog's body language and emotional state, ensuring that the training process is a positive and enjoyable experience for the animal. This approach not only fosters a more willing and eager hunting partner but also ensures that the dog's welfare is always a top priority.

By prioritizing the relationship with the dog and utilizing science-based training techniques, a handler sets the stage for a successful and fulfilling hunting experience. With this foundation in place, let's delve into the specific behaviors and skills necessary for a hunting dog to assist its handler effectively in the field.